I'm trying to assume good faith here... but I want you to know, that reading a statement like that from a man on this list, makes it feel uncomfortable for me as a female. The comment reads to me like you're not taking these issues seriously and that you have an agenda that does not necessarily connect with "increasing female participation on Wikipedia." In my opinion, this type of response, the lack of thinking as to why women might not want to hear men making these comments is why men should fork off.