@Carolmooredc, I don't see how that would be either an online harassment issue or a Wikipedia issue, since on the internet, no one knows when you're in the toilet. Events likewise would be in the hands of the event sponsor, although I did hear of one event where a man was accompanied into the ladies room by a staff member in order to change a baby diaper, as the men's room did not have the right facilities.
dare i say it... so one can see why a lot of women (and their male relatives) are nervous about any guy who SAYS he's really a woman getting into the bathrooms, fitting rooms, lock rooms, showers, shelters and prisons with us...