on 10/12/07 8:23 AM, Daniel R. Tobias at dan(a)tobias.name wrote:
it's the whole business that we need to constantly
pussyfoot around these topics and not say what we really mean, for
fear of offending somebody or being labeled as "blaming the victim"
(or worse), that is a major part of the problem.
I agree with you, Dan. There is a huge difference between attacking an issue
and attacking a person. If you want to attack an issue - do it honestly, and
in public. If you must attack a person - make it a confrontation - make it
verbally - and in private.
Marc